This was a inspiration from my friend myranda! Because i think all teen moms wonder these exact same things!
After you had you son/daughter was any of these questions running threw your head?
- What if i wouldnt have got pregnant?
- Where would I be in life right now?
- What job, house,or car could I have without a child?
- What friends would i still have?
-What would i do on the weekends besides changing diapers feeding bathing and changing?
- Would i have married this man or still been with him if it wasnt for our child?
- When i had money what would i spend it on besides my child?
In life theres alot of what if! But what would life be without them? You always wonder where youd be or what youd be doing. You got to realize god is the one that makes your path you may think your the one that chose where your at. But in all reality it was not you but god! If god didnt think you could handle what he gave you he wouldnt have put anymore on your plate than you can handle!
Im not saying my life is horriable by any means! My son means the world to me and i wouldnt want to have any of those what ifs i rather have him! Yea, i missed out on senior year, graduation, prom, all those parties, all those friends. But im still getting all that back! I got my diploma another way im almost finished with college! Im going to prom this sat. thanks to one of my only true friends left. And I get weekends without my son because he goes to his daddy's! Im not complaining at all because my life is perfect with him and would be lonely without! Yes teen pregnancy is not always a good thing but it my case it changed me for the better!
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